Someone asked, “Do you believe in all this superstitious stuff like attachments, spirits, entities etc?”
I don’t believe in it. Let’s put it this way. Do you believe in a tree or do you see it? Our conscious mind is logical and operates in a 3d world. Our unconscious mind is a whole world in itself that operates beyond time behind our everyday awareness. It is a stream of consciousness, mythology and imagination. It is as ‘real’ as our conscious mind, except that its experience is our private experience. Both realms of consciousness operate in synchronicity. A block in one affects the other. For example, fears, anxieties and phobias affect our daily life choices. Try not to confuse the realms of the mind, they are very important for happiness, success and mental health.
What is normal?
Each mind and person is unique in what is normal for them.
After working in the mental health and self care area for 7 plus years, I know how negative vibes can drain people and create blocks to happiness and success in their life. I know how seeing someone who does not judge the inner experience and in fact provides ways to find peace within it, can be so helpful.
The human energy field or the complete soul is a mysterious force that creates all kinds of experiences. We don’t just have a conscious mind, but we also have an unconscious aspect to our minds that rules our life. But, we can empower ourself and create inner peace that can transform our life.
The energy field is unique for each individual. Some people are affected by negative vibes, jealousy or anger directed at them. One of the reasons why people are inexplicably drained after work is that they may be empathic—meaning that they lose energy around people whose vibe is negative.
For example, one thing that used to terrify me was bitching. As a girl I wasn’t always aware, but as my spiritual path evolved, I’d know and I had to find a way to deal with my sensitivity. Because, the kind of work I do is quite visible and different, I have to be out there, and I can’t hide:)
Talking bad about someone is only a problem when there is a lot of energy in it. If someone is just plain bewildered, silly or humorous it is harmless. Even if they are upset but not malevolent, you can fix it. You can send healing light, you can reach out and calm them down or communicate. But when it is like a super hateful vibe, it’s not fun. You know you are in a toxic relationship when you may find yourself exhausted, unable to get up in the morning and depressed for no reason. Thinking back to the last time you talked to them. Suppressing how you truly feel—only makes for sickness. You can’t change your sensitivity, but you can change your energy field—that’s why energy healing is useful as it literally clears the mind of toxic energy.
People sometimes ask me, has someone done black magic? Has someone wished me ill? Sometimes it is true, their aura i.e., energy field has holes from negative energy where a piece of their soul has been chewed off. Negative energy is jealousy, entity attachments etc. Many times, the source of the trauma is a close relationship or bullying at work. But, the beauty of this work is that people can find healing and realize they can get help for what is really draining them. People realize they are not alone in their hell.
So what do you do, how do you help?
I check your unconscious mind, by tuning in to your energy and then advise what you may need.
How do negative cords or attachments arise?
The most common cause is trauma. Sometimes the trauma is suffered in childhood, in the womb or in a past life. It can also be a person who has directed severe negativity towards you. Or you could have unconsciously called in an negative attachment at some point in your life. If you find yourself very afraid of the dark side or death, it could well be an attachment. Extreme jealousy is another sign of negative attachments. At the root of jealousy is some kind of fear. If you aren’t jealous, but the other person is, and you have some fear, their jealousy can affect you. The only way to overcome negativity is to continue on your spiritual path and keep creating healthy boundaries. These are harder to create in close relationships but they are extremely important.